You’re
in a real quandary about whether to return
to work after maternity leave. You
can’t bear the thought of leaving your
baby, but you feel you’ll get bored
and frustrated staying at home and you need
the money.
You’re
returning to work after maternity leave and
you don’t feel confident that you can
‘cut it’ in your work like you
used to. You’ve got used to
spending time at home with your baby, with
your mind on feeding and nappies and all that
goes with looking after him or her. You’ve
been happily immersed in the world of mother
and baby groups and you’re not sure
how you’re going to fit back into the
business world.
You’ve
returned to part-time work after maternity
leave and feel that you’ve been sidelined.
You no longer get asked to do the interesting
and responsible parts of your job that you
were so good at. Your boss doesn’t think
to mention opportunities for promotion or
advancing your career to you.
You’ve
had a career break of several years and you
want to return to work now your children are
older. You feel totally out of touch
with the world of work and you’re worried
that your skills and experience are out-of-date
and no employer will be interested in you.
You
feel guilty that you want to work as well
as have children. You feel that you’re
a second-class mother because you’re
not a stay-at-home mother and somehow your
children may be missing out.
Your
job no longer gives you the satisfaction that
it used to and you resent the time away from
your children. You don’t want
to give up work completely and you need some
income coming in, but you don’t know
what to do.
Childcare
is a continual headache and you want
to find work that fits in better with the
kind of childcare you want your children to
have, or helps you to manage better around
school holidays.
You’re
fed up with the constant stress of trying
to juggle your work commitments, run around
after the kids and keep your home running
smoothly. You feel tired all the
time and you keep thinking that there must
be more to life than this. All you seem to
do is work, look after the kids’ needs
and get the household chores done and you
never have time for you.
You
feel you’re spread too thin and you
never have enough time to do anything well,
even though you want to be good at your career,
be a good mother and a good partner, have
a well-kept home and keep up some of your
own interests.